Well, I couldn’t keep it down to just ten.  Pick your own from these 25 and we’ll discuss it.

1. Bach, J.S.:   Brandenburg Concerto #3 in G Major, BWV 1048

This great Baroque master had 20 children, and he was a professional musician.  He had to be great not to be a broke Baroque.  You saw that bad pun coming, didn’t you?

2. Beethoven:  Symphony #9 in D Minor, Opus 125, Choral

Beethoven was deaf when he wrote this greatest and most revolutionary of symphonies.  At the end of the premier, the concertmaster had to turn Beethoven around to see the applause.

3. Bizet:  Carmen Suites #1 & #2

A French composer that wrote the quintessential Spanish opera.  Go figure.  These orchestral-only suites are rich with themes you’ve heard anywhere from commercials and films to Bugs Bunny.

4. Brahms:  Concerto in D Major for Violin & Orchestra, Opus 77

Brahms wrote only one violin concerto, but what a masterpiece.

5. Chopin:  Concerto #1 in E Minor for Piano & Orchestra, Opus 11

Chopin composed mostly for piano alone, but this concerto embodies the early Romantic period of music perfectly.  The second movement always reminds me of my late wife Dona.

6.  Dukas:  The Sorcerer’s Apprentice, Scherzo after a ballad by Goethe

Well, you’ve seen Mickey Mouse be the Sorcerer’s Apprentice in Fantasia.  Now, just sit back and enjoy the music by itself, a masterful work of orchestral painting.

7. Dvorak:  Symphony #9 in E Minor, Opus 95, From the New World

This Czech composer expertly summarized America in this, his last symphony.  Listen for the tune “Coming Home” in the second movement.  The scherzo directly following is amazing, racing on toward the last movement and the symphony’s brilliant finale.  I used the scherzo as a test when purchasing a stereo system.  Heads turned at its power.

8. Gershwin:  Rhapsody in Blue

Now for an American composer.  Gershwin expertly fused classical with jazz in his most familiar work for piano and orchestra.

9. Grieg:  Peer Gynt Suites #1, Opus 46, & #2, Opus 55

This great Norwegian composer wrote incidental music for Ibsen’s fantastic play Peer Gynt.  Grieg culled eight pieces from his music into these two exotic suites invoking a sense of Scandinavian myth and drama.

10. Handel:  Water Music

Like Bach, another Baroque composer of German origin.  Handel ended up plying his trade for the English Court.  He composed this piece for entertaining the royals as they lounged about on the royal barge.  They didn’t have CD players or i-tunes then.

11. Haydn:  Symphony #92 in G Major, Oxford

Another German writing for the English.  This symphony comes between the set of six symphonies called the Paris Symphonies and his last symphonies, a set of twelve called the London Symphonies.  I like this one as a perfect example of the Classic symphony.

12. Holst:  The Planets, Opus 32

Before Star Wars and Star Trek with their instantly familiar themes, this English composer had written the inspiration for it all in this seven movement impression of the solar system.  Absolutely fantastic!  O, and by the way, he composed it before Pluto was discovered and subsequently rejected as a planet.

13. Khachaturian:  Sabre Dance from Gayaneh

This Armenian composer wrote several ballets.  The Sabre Dance is extremely manic.  Try dancing to this… and with a sword!  No don’t, just listen.

14. Mendelssohn:  The Hebrides Overture, Opus 26, Fingal’s Cave

You may recognize this from a Looney Tune.  Mendelssohn took a vacation to Scotland and wrote a symphony and this overture.  I like it.

15. Mozart:  Serenade #13 in G Major, K. 525, Eine Kleine Nachtmusik (A Little Night Music)

This strings-only work epitomizes the masterful way Mozart had of capturing perfection in music.  Yes, he was a genius.

16. Prokofiev:  Peter & the Wolf, Opus 67, A Musical Tale for Children

This piece gives a great overview of the orchestra in a fun and accessible way.

17. Rachmaninoff:  Concerto #2 in C Minor for Piano & Orchestra, Opus 18

Rachmaninoff wrote this greatest of all piano concertos after being treated for depression brought on by the failure of his first symphony.  He dedicated the concerto to his doctor who had used hypnotism in his treatment.  Whatever, this music is without equal from the first somber chords of the first movement through the unbelievably beautiful second movement to the last bar of the thrilling third movement.

18. Ravel:  Bolero

Ravel takes one musical idea and repeats it over and over adding more and more instruments to build an exotic and sensual take-off on a classic Spanish dance.  Just like Bizet, another Frenchman writing fantastic Spanish music.

19: Rossini:  Overture to Il barbiere di Siviglia (The Barber of Seville)

O, you’ll know this from Bugs Bunny and Elmer Fudd.

20. Schubert:  Symphony #9 in C Major, D 944, Great C Major

Schubert died in obscurity, but his music was rediscovered after his death.  Mendelssohn tried to premier this in London, but the first violins scoffed at the last movement.  Exasperated he withdrew it.  Listening to this breathtaking symphony makes you realize how small the London players were thinking.  Another thing, don’t get bogged down in trying to figure out the numbering of Schubert’s symphonies.  Look for the Great C Major.

21. Sibelius:  Finlandia, Opus 26

Sibelius was a Finnish composer.  When he wrote this, Finland was occupied by Russia.  The piece became a symbol of the indomitable Finnish spirit.  I frequently listen to Sibelius only for weeks at a time.

22. Strauss, Johann II:  Overture to Die Fledermaus (The Bat)

You can hear even in this operetta overture why Strauss was called “The Waltz King.”  It’s said even Brahms envied his waltz writing.

23. Tchaikovsky:  The Nutcracker, Opus 71

Tchaikovsky didn’t like his third and last ballet, but beyond its status as a classical warhorse, this ballet music reveals Tchaikovsky’s musical genius in more subtlety and grace than the equally famous 1812 Overture.

24. Vivaldi:  The Four Seasons, The Contest between Harmony & Invention, Opus 8

A Baroque composer from Venice and a teacher at a music school for orphaned girls, Vivaldi wrote this set of four short concertos for violin and orchestra to invoke the seasons.  He nailed them.

25. Wagner:  The Ride of the Valkyries from Die Walkure (The Valkyries)

Inspired by Norse mythology, Wagner wrote four massive operas called The Ring Cycle, long before Tolkien’s The Lord of the Ring.  In this third opera, he has the classic goddesses in horned helmets ride out of the heavens accompanied to this exhilarating music.  Bugs and Elmer acted out this one, too.

If we got to live under the same roof, shouldn’t we enjoy each other’s company?

1. A Night at the Table

Try at least a night a week to get the whole family together around the dinner table.  Put on some good music, but not too loud to talk.  Serve a meal that doesn’t necessitate the cook always getting up.  Then talk and listen.  The kids may balk and sulk, but eventually they’ll connect.

2. Pizza Night

We have a Pizza and Pie night each Friday.  We mostly make a pizza but sometimes send out for one.  We make a homemade pie, different each week – delicious!  Then we’ll eat and watch a movie as a family.  We have fun repeating back the lines or comparing one movie to another.  Over time, this has become a tradition the kids hold as inviolate, or not to be broken.

3. Church

Go to church.  Find a small group Sunday School or Life Group that encourages discussion of the Scriptures as applied to life.  Sometimes you may have to pull your family back together for a service as even the church can separate us into age groups.  Once home, ask each family member what they learned.

4. Vacation

Taking a vacation doesn’t have to be expensive.  It’s these extended times together that make such lasting memories for you and your children.  And don’t argue.  Plan what you’ll do, where you’ll stay, and how to get there.  If you need to ask directions, then follow your wife’s advice and pull over to ask someone.  Some vacations are go, go, go.  Others can be relaxing and lazy.  Whichever, have fun.

5. TV off and Talk

There’s a small button on the remote that will actually turn the TV off.  Amazing!  Try limiting screen time (and there’s lots of screens surrounding us now) each night and then find that you can talk to each other without Facebook or texting or channel surfing.  Remarkable!

6. Read a Book Together

Choose a book that the youngest child can follow but will still interest the oldest.  This itself may be a chore.  Then read a bit each week.  Alternately, take time to read short books or a chapter of a longer book each night to each child.  It’s an investment in time, but you know where your children are and what’s going in their heads.

7. Work Together

There are chores that have to get done.  Some can be done with each other, or some are individual jobs in the same proximity.  Sometimes just presence is needed to become closer.

8. Time Alone

For smooth running relationships, everyone needs alone time to recharge.  This is especially true among people living in the same home.  It’s so you won’t drive each other crazy.

9. Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving can be a time when your immediate family reconnects with your extended family.  Try not to run higgly-piggly over the country or exhaust yourself in the kitchen or glue yourself to the football games, but give effort to be thankful.

10. Christmas

Believe it or not, but Christmas can be a good family time.  Don’t try to make the perfect Christmas and end up running yourself ragged.  Prioritize each other and the season, not breaking the bank on gifts.  Establish family traditions that mean something to each person but that don’t end up a big burden.